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He’s dark and lean, speaks to me in a deep, dangerous voice and dares me to adventure where I’ve never dared before. He’s Droid X and he’s the new love in my life. I shouted out my love on my personal Facebook page and now I must shout it out to the Gen Plus world. If you are into the “smartphone” technology, or even if you are a cell phone user, by now, you’ve heard something about the new Droid X. Seriously, I have no clue how it works, but it is a piece of genius and gives you a glimpse into what the future holds in handhelds.
What is being hailed as fantastic are the video capabilities (yes, great), the larger screen, the HD camera (really good), the ability to upload to your television set, plus a lot of the features that the iPhone boasts — touch technology that is really, really good and makes you feel like YOU are the reporter on CNN playing with the interactive flat panel.
But there a couple of features that I’m insane over. You can have an app for just about anything and more are being created by the minute — which means that any glitches will have a fix-it app in about a heartbeat. (There is a big challenge with searching and sorting email other than GMail, and I’m not too keen on the apps out there yet, but there will be a better one soon, I’m positive.)
And there is a feature called “Swype”, where you drag your finger from letter to letter to type your text or email rather than finger-type it. It’s extremely cool once you get the hang of it and it is pretty fast.
There are SEVEN home screens so you can order your life just the way you like it. It can almost function like a laptop on the road and certainly, for someone like me, who is away from the desk most of the day, yet needs to stay connected to my team in the field and clients trying to reach me, this is the perfect smartphone.
Short of creating long documents or complicated spreadsheets, I can do pretty much anything else with this sleek machine. Now if only he could dance.
Last week, for the first time in my life, I met a man suffering from macular degeneration. Over the course of the past 5 years, he has become increasingly blind and there is nothing that can be done to help him see more clearly. Within a few months or another few years, he will be totally blind. Continue reading “Macular Degeneration”
Every now and again, life on my own timeclock becomes so insanely busy that I can’t find the quiet time I need to write. When my daughter was in the hurried, harried schedule of the school year, I would get up at 6am, get her breakfast and school gear ready to go and after the whirlwind quick AM rush, I’d head back to my home for a calm breakfast and some thinking time, at least once or twice a week. Well, the last two weeks were the start of my busy season. I mean, it is always a bit insane,wearing two business hats (social media and pet services…I know, I know!), but as social media consulting tends to calm down over the summer, it’s a good fit with pet services, which heats up to a fever pitch in the summer.
As life would have it, I had a rush job, creating a website for someone who has been too busy in their business to ever worry about one (or social media) in the past just exactly at the same time as my summer services began in earnest. Plus, with no school for my daughter, 6 AM has morphed into 7AM (yeah…that’s me…sleeping in…LOL!), but that hour of “me” time, has virtually erased my writing time. And before I knew it, I discovered that TWO weeks have gone by without me posting on this blog. However, I did post (ONCE only) on my pet services blog and I think you’ll get a laugh at my adventures with de-skunkifying some four-legged guests.
As well, not posting means I couldn’t contribute to this past week’s Blogging Boomers Carnival (I could have sent in an old post, but that is irritating if you’ve already read it!), but John Agno, blogger at So Baby Boomer, put together a great carnival. Enjoy Blogging Boomers Carnival #168!
It’s summer and it’s Monday and it’s time for our weekly roundup known as the Blogging Boomers Carnival. A bunch of pretty interesting bloggers, who happen to be boomers, share their fave posts from the prior week…that’s the carnival. This week I’m host, so here for your early reading pleasure, in no particular order are:
It’s All About Aging wants to know if the conversation about family health history is a harder one than the one about money and wills?
According to a recent survey, by the time we reach middle-age, we’re feeling so fat, unfit and unsexy that our sex lives are just about over. Find out more over at Contemporary Retirement. (And check out the follow-up post which argues that it’s boredom and stale marriages that are responsible for our diminished libido – not the fact that we’ve let ourselves go!)
For a variety of reasons from economics to longevity to increased desires for happiness and self-expression, divorce rates for couples married 30 and 40 years are increasing — more at LifeTwo.com.
Skinny jeans, leggings and everything in between. What’s the difference, are they age appropriate, and what do you wear with them so you don’t look like a giant ice cream cone? Find out from the Glam Gals at Fabulous after 40.
As for me, I’d like to point your attention to one of the great posters that I have loved reading for quite some time, Saul Friedman. He very often reflects my own point of view, but the depth to which he researches each topic constantly amazes me. He’s given me permission to reprint some of his articles on this site. Here is one, posted at Time Goes By, and reprinted with his permission, that blew me away:
Tuesday, 20 April 2010
REFLECTIONS: My Companion, Cancer
Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Saul Friedman (bio) writes the twice-monthly Reflections column for Time Goes By in which he comments on news, politics and social issues from his perspective as one of the younger members of the greatest generation. His other column, Gray Matters, formerly published in Newsday, appears each Saturday.
My wife and I were sitting in the very crowded oncologist’s office when I had this ugly thought. Everyone had come to check up on the treatment of their cancers. And I wondered – if there were a cure for cancer, the dozen doctors in the practice, their nurses, technicians, aides and receptionists would be out of work. Could it be possible that the cancer treating establishment is impeding a cure?I am not a conspiracy nut, but it would not be the first time during my reporting and writing career that I have encountered money and cynicism in the cancer-fighting business.Research to find treatments and a cure for breast cancer get twice as much money as prostate cancer, which kills as many men as breast cancer kills women. Lung cancer, the biggest killer, gets less. Why?
I’ve called the battle of the glands. The breast cancer lobby is more powerful and attractive than the prostate cancer lobby. There are too few lung cancer survivors to constitute a lobby and besides most lung cancers are blamed on the victims; they should not have been smoking.
On another occasion, when I was supervising a journalism seminar, one of my students learned that a North Carolina chapter of the American Cancer Society declined to take part in action against the tobacco industry and one of its largest companies because it was a mainstay of the local economy and had contributed to the chapter.
The American Cancer Society, one of the nation’s richest volunteer organizations, has been criticized for placing more emphasis on treatment than prevention and the possibility that the environment and chemicals are responsible for many cancers. But that begs the question, why can’t a cancer, even with a known cause, be eradicated, cured?
Having survived one cancer (esophageal) five years ago, I’m now dealing with another in my stomach as a kind of constant companion. And I find that nothing much seems to have changed. As science writer Curtis Brainard wrote in the April 12 Columbia Journalism Review,
“There’s a trope in medicine that doctors have only three ways of dealing with cancer-cutting (surgery), burning (radiation) and poisoning (chemotherapy).”
It’s true, as I’ve discovered, that surgical techniques have improved, but not everywhere; much depends on the surgeon. Radiation has its limits (I am no longer a candidate because I’ve had my full dose of radiation and doctors don’t want me to light up.) And chemo is, after all, poison that we hope will kill the cancer but not me.
In a sense, then, I feel that I’m being treated with primitive medicine in the 21st Century.
So it’s natural for a trained reporter – with or without cancer – to wonder why, 40 years after the U.S. put a man on the moon and 39 years after President Nixon called for a “war on cancer” and $200 billion spent on the war, a cure continues to elude us.
That expenditure, from government and private resources is a pittance compared to what we spend on bottomless, meaningless wars that kill but do not heal. Indeed, in too many cases and in too many places, cancer is the top killer, responsible for 7.4 million annual deaths world-wide. And 500,000 in the U.S.
To be sure, treatments have been successful in arresting the growth of cancers. Eighty percent of children stricken with leukemia used to die; now 80 percent survive. Similarly, 95 percent of testicular cancers were fatal; now the same percentage survives. Overall, the current five-year survival rate for all cancers is 65 percent compared to 50 percent 40 years ago.
That’s an important advance, but it’s not much of a leap (one percent per year). More important, the treatment may arrest cancer, but it cannot claim a cure. I survived a cancer for five years, but I wasn’t cured. We can claim survival and remission, but never a cure. A woman I know survived leukemia when she was a child, but she still has yearly checkups lest some stray cancer cells cause trouble.
How come there is no cure? Christopher Wanjek, writing last year in LiveScience explained that
“Part of the reason for having no cure is semantics. There will never be a single cancer cure because cancer refers to a family of more than 100 different diseases characterized by abnormal cell growth. These diseases arise from numerous causes, such as radiation, chemicals, or even viruses.”
But despite the knowledge, for example, that smoking causes cancer, we don’t yet know how. And even if we know the cause, we can treat, but not cure.“Most of the success,” said Wanjek, “is not from miracle cures but rather simple screening procedures such as pap smears and colonoscopies.”
But they don’t always work (my cancer was missed the first time) and at best, they find cancers at an early stage, when they can be cut, burned or poisoned but not cured.
According to the experts, there are some promising paths towards solving the mysteries of cancer: stem cell research, genetic research and even vaccines to treat and to prevent. Mark Roth, writing in the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette April 7, reported that commercial vaccines to treat as well as prevent cancers may be in the offing.
He cited the present use of a vaccine, Gardasil, to prevent cervical cancer which can be caused by a virus. Soon, he wrote, the FDA is expected to approve a vaccine, Provenge, to treat prostate cancer that has spread.
And Roth quotes researchers as saying cancer vaccines may be on the verge of wider use. Columbia Journalism Review’s Brainard trashed Roth’s optimism, partly because Roth is not a science writer, but Brainard did little to report on possible advances toward a cure, including vaccines.
The literature I’ve read and the doctors I’ve talked to during my five years of dealing with cancer tells me this: Despite the presence of and substantial funding support for the National Cancer Institute, in Washington’s suburbs, there is no central coordination of effort to find a cure for cancer, or even learn if a cure or cures are possible.
The moon landing, accomplished in eight years, the Manhattan Project, successful in less than ten years, the eradication of malaria in the U.S., cures for tuberculosis and polio, were American accomplishments in the 20th century. I see no such effort focused on the most vicious killer, cancer.
You might say I have a vested interest in this. That would be wrong. Unless someone comes up with a magic bullet tomorrow, I will have to live with my constant companion and take my chemo and hope. But too many people, and some of whom you know, are suffering and dying around us.
I remember what it was like before and after Salk. I’d like my kids to experience that feeling, when the fear of a disease is lifted.
I’ve been invited to participate in the 2010 TechConnect conference taking place next week in Anaheim. The program is all about clean energy, creating smart grids and community use of energy on and off the grid. Timing is perfect with the Gulf Oil spill top of everyone’s mind. Some brilliant minds from top universities, BC and California power companies, and private “clean” industry will be conducting workshops focused on the British Columbia/California combined resources and it should be very exciting. I was blown away at the conference I attended a few months ago and expect more of the same. The public doesn’t often hear what is going on behind closed doors, particulary when it comes to smart energy and this type of conference is an encouraging invitation to what the future could be.
If you haven’t caught up with some of the best darned boomer blogging on the web this week, then head over to Vaboomer, where Nancy Mehegan is our host for Blogging Boomers Carnival #165!
I’ve obviously become very label-conscious and Cheerios has made me aware of their new campaign, focused on encouraging Americans to make heart health a priority, so they can do more of what they love. The campaign will be using real stories from active people and you get to film yourself participating in your passion or hobby. There are Cheerios story kits available (HD video camera, two memory cards, batteries and a Cheerios cereal sample) to a small number of potential storytellers! If you want to bring your personal story to life and have the chance to be featured on the new Cheerios website, then head to www.Cheerios.com/love and request your own Cheerios Story Kit .
And get ready to swoon:
Remember these? “I Say a Little Prayer”, ”I’ll Never Fall in Love Again”, “It’ Our Little Secret”…
Bacharach’s brilliant score is the epitome of the pop-Broadway hybrid, and this revival adds two of his best songs (“Say A Little Prayer” and “A House is Not a Home”) to nuggets such as “I’ll Never Fall in Love Again.” - Elisabeth Vincentelli, New York Post
MASTERWORKS BROADWAY proudly announces the upcoming release of the New Broadway Cast Recordingof PROMISES, PROMISES. The recording is available nationwide physically and digitally on June 22, 2010 and is produced by Grammy Award winners David Caddick and David Lai. For the first time in over forty years PROMISES, PROMISES returns to the stage starring Emmy Award winner Sean Hayes and Tony and Emmy Award winner Kristin Chenoweth. Directed and choreographed by Tony and Emmy Award winner Rob Ashford, this new production of PROMISES, PROMISES, with Neil Simon’s funny and touching book and Burt Bacharach and Hal David’s hit-packed score, opened at the Broadway Theatre on Sunday, April 25, 2010.
PROMISES, PROMISES stars Sean Hayes as Chuck Baxter, Kristin Chenoweth as Fran Kubelik, Tony Goldwyn as J.D. Sheldrake, Tony Award winner Katie Finneran as Marge MacDougall and Tony Award winner Dick Latessa as Dr. Dreyfuss. They lead a cast of 27 including Brooks Ashmanskas as Mr. Dobitch, Peter Benson as Mr. Kirkeby, Seán Martin Hingston as Mr. Eichelberger and Ken Land as Jesse Vanderhof.
Based on the 1960 Academy Award-winning Billy Wilder film The Apartment that starred Jack Lemmon and Shirley MacLaine, PROMISES, PROMISES tells the story of the Consolidated Life Insurance Company and Chuck Baxter, one of its charming young employees. In an effort to advance his career, Chuck lends executives his apartment for their extramarital romantic trysts. But things become slightly complicated when Chuck discovers Fran Kubelik, the object of his affection, is involved with one of the executives.
PROMISES, PROMISES earned 4 Tony Award nominations including: Best Performance by a Leading Actor in a Musical (Sean Hayes), Best Performance by a Featured Actress in a Musical (Katie Finneran), Best Orchestrations (Jonathan Tunick), and Best Choreography (Rob Ashford) and features orchestrations by Jonathan Tunick, with music direction by Phil Reno and dance music arrangements by David Chase.
Candy Spitz, LCSW, ACC, Certified Life and Career Coach, has signed on as Director of Training and Facilitator Relations. An experienced 2young2retire facilitator, Candy will be conducting the next facilitator training starting July 21, 2010, and running five consecutive Wednesdays from 5-6:30 pm Eastern via teleclass.
If you are a coach, social worker, career counselor or have professional experience in team building or leadership development, the 2young2retire facilitator certification is a credential that prepares you to work with people 50 and older in designing a meaningful second act. Graduates of the training – 270 at last count – are bringing the 2young2retire course into their places of work, community and senior centers and community colleges. The 2young2retire program helped the City of Glendale, Arizona, win the 2009 AARP Best Employers for Workers Over 50 award, the first for a city.
And I’m anxiously awaiting Wander Woman: How High- Achieving Women Find Contentment and Direction (Berrett-Koehler;
1605093513; June 14, 2010) by organizational psychologist and Master Certified Coach Marcia Reynolds. In the book, Reynolds provides a wealth of exercises and practices so women can better understand the needs that drive decisions, discover
new ways of finding direction, and thoughtfully choose and plan the future — whether climbing the corporate ladder, finding satisfaction below the glass ceiling, or setting out on their own. For more information please visit www.wanderwomanbook.com and follow the author on Facebook and Twitter. I’m interested in the “setting out on their own” section!
What? Life after porn? What is Janet writing about now, you ask? Yegads. Well, last night I met a new friend and very cool guy while watching the Lakers’ game. Michael Abbott is an indie producer/director and DOP (director of photography) and I had a great chat about his new movie, “Exxxit” - over some very loud Lakers’ fan cheering.
You may know of Michael because of his Sundance nominated film Expired and, if not, his company website gives you his flavor — exactly what you’d expect and not disappointing in the least.
He invited me to attend the premiere of his latest flick “Exxxit: Life After Porn”, which I couldn’t manage, but here is a trailer. Made me want to see it.
EXXXIT is an exploration into the personal side of one of the biggest exports the city of Los Angeles has to offer: the 6 billion dollar a year pornography industry. In their own words, over a dozen men and women who have retired from the porn industry, recount their life and times in the business, and how it’s led to where they are today. Unbiased, unfiltered and surprisingly, human.
And guess what? Many of them are Boomers and SOME are 50 plussers.
Michael Abbott:
For the first time in my career, I stepped aside from producing or directing and am the cinematographer for this very interesting and truly entertaining film that puts the focus on truly the most beautiful part of the human body of porn stars.. the heart.
If you live in LA and want to support and indie filmmaker, the premiere is:
Date: Thursday, June 10, 2010
Time: 2:30pm — BEFORE the Laker’s game!
Location: Laemmle’s Sunset 5 Theatre – 8000 W. Sunset Blvd. Los Angeles, CA (at Crescent Heights)
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